Not getting what you want? Pull back.
I learned this gem at a Rosh Hashanah dinner from a Wall St physics whiz who told me this was true of every brilliant person he'd every worked with: from theatre directors to theoretical physicists.
Implicit in this is trust. We try to force things or people when we act like our will is always what brings the results we want. If we are mature enough to pull back, we trust nothing bad will happen without More. Now.
